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Section 3
FIRST-YEAR STUDENT ISSUES
Students will react to university
life in different ways. This is an exciting and challenging time! Sudden
freedom; living in a large, interesting
population; and increased academic and personal responsibilities can
bring on many reactions (e.g., homesickness, fear of failure, or loneliness).
To help you prepare for a range of experiences, we have put the following
guidelines together for your use.
It is important to be aware of your
individual residents’ needs.
Most residents will experience some of these issues, but the degree and
signs of stress and anxiety will differ from person to person. We don’t
expect you to be superhuman! Actively listening and offering friendly
support can help students adjust to university live.
Below are some issues
that may arise for your residents and some suggestions for how to support
students. Also, think creatively and use what you
know about your residents to help support them. This is only a small
sample of what you may encounter – and these issues come up for
many college students, not just first-year students.
Feeling Lost
- Encourage involvement in community groups
and on-campus organizations.
- Tell students about events related to their
major or special interests.
- Include people in group activities and
set the expectation that other residents will do the same (e.g.,
inviting each other to eat at the
DC).
Sudden Freedom
(Increased drinking, partying, etc.)
- Make the policies clear and remind
residents of their responsibilities.
- Address policy violations and
problem behaviors immediately and consistently.
- Always model positive
behaviors to students.
- Remind them to consider students around them,
whom they may be disturbing with their behavior.
- Organize a program
on responsible drinking.
- Encourage residents to get involved in floor
events, channeling their energy more constructively.
- Have other floor
members support your efforts.
Depression
(Due to sudden increase in responsibilities, change in environment, and/or
medical reasons)
- For academic/class-related stressors, refer students
to their academic advisor, Pre-Major Advising, the Learning Resources
Center, tutoring
services, or other related resources.
- If they want to drop
a course, but don’t know how, refer them
and support their decision.
- For problems with time or prioritizing,
a workshop or resources on time management may help.
- Suggest that they
talk to someone. If you detect a serious problem, refer the student
to University Health Services- Mental Health Services,
the Everywoman’s Center, or Counseling & Assessment Services.
Be sure to share that information with your RD.
- Be a good listener!
If they want to talk, listening is often a good way you can help.
Homesickness
- Get to know each resident and address each
resident by name.
- Invite and encourage residents to get involved in
the community.
- Ask them to lead a floor project – this
will help them feel wanted, needed, and important. This is often
simultaneously
beneficial
for you, as an RA.
Loneliness
- Be a good listener! Let them talk (remember
your own fears as a first year student). Often students will feel less
lonely after expressing
these feelings to someone.
- Talk to them and let them know that
many people feel lonely, it’s
not weird or unusual. You may want to cite a personal example
of how you deal with loneliness.
- Encourage them to participate in group
activities.
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